To give is to live!

"Blessed are the merciful for they shall obtain mercy."- Matthew 5:7

He that is apt at showing mercy is like a man or a woman adorned in beautiful raiments and regalia. His demeanor is one to be envied.

Such a person exudes a presence which opens doors that are closed against other people.

The giving life is a living life and a living life is a life bubbling with joy and fulfilment.

Fulfilment doesn't come from accumulation of wealth but rather it's distribution. The joy that comes to you from knowing that someone else's life was the better for it because you contributed significantly either in cash or in kind,  that joy of being a blessing to another person cannot be quantified in monetary terms.

And just so you know,  you don't have to have all the money in the world before you can be an help to another person.

Pope John Paul II said "nobody is so poor he has nothing to give and nobody is so rich he has nothing to receive."

©MrValue

Stretch!

"I have never met a strong person with an easy past."

If your desire is to become great, you will be tested, you will have lots of rough edges, there would be down times. There would be times when you will doubt yourself and ask how stupid you are to have thought of becoming great.

Your background would become so enlarged in your mind in 3D format,  and all you would be seeing are your inadequacies.

At this point, quitting would be the most reasonable thing to do.

You would become so acquainted with the status quo because it's more convenient and comfortable. 

You would no longer seek to grow or develop yourself and to cease to grow is death of potential.

Dreams are life givers, they stretch you!

Your hard past was designed to stretch you and not ruin you.

It is the stretching that provokes the greatness within you to come out.

It is important for your generation that you manifest. You can't settle for less!

Stand tall and keep moving.

©MrValue

Act on what you now know!

"Success is not so much about what you know but how well you have applied that which you know." - MrValue

Another way to put this statement is saying success is about application of knowledge not its accumulation. Education has no profit if it doesn't improve one's standard of living. Lots of folks just delight themselves in acquiring knowledge upon knowledge without applying any. That's why we have many professors who are broke.

Why is this so?
All they have is head knowledge, no application. They can teach well that which they have acquired but applying it is the real deal.

Knowlege is potential power, which means power or ability at rest. Until it is put to work, then it has no capacity to transform your situation.

It is just like having the key with you and still be knocking at a closed door.

How unwise!

We are a fortunate generation because every information we need about anything is at our finger tips and that at no cost to us.

There is nothing we set out to accomplish that has not been done before and there are information in form of books, audios and videos  available to us to prepare us for that chosen line of interest.

Yet all we do is just stock ourselves with this information and do nothing about it. Some even pride themselves with how well they have mastered a particular thing just by reading about it but in actual practice they have no clue.

No matter how well you read about swimming or study it. Until you really get into the swimming pool and apply all the knowledge you have acquired about the art of swimming, you are only a joker.

He that fails to apply that which he has learnt is no different from the one who hasn't made an effort to learn in the first instance. Both are in the same boat.

Knowledge backed up with action is a formidable tool to accomplishing anything great.

© MrValue

True Living

"You will show me the path of life; In your presence is fullness of joy; At your right hand are pleasures forevermore."- Psalms 16:11 NKJV

Nothing competes with the joy of carrying God's presence. This is the secret of the success of Jesus ministry while on earth. He didn't have a care in the world because God was with Him. He concerned Himself  with obeying the Father's voice, doing always whatever is pleasing to Him.

This is true prosperity in delighting to do the Father's will. A life that is totally given over to what God desires is true living. One could have all the wealth, fame and power in the whole world and still miss God, for as the scriptures teaches us "a man's life does not consist of the abundance of the things he possesses."

But when our lives are connected with God, then joy that knows no bound gushes forth in our heart. To be where God is, is our soul's delight and no man has really begun to live who does not know God. To know God is to know life and He that loves Him, loves life.

A life separated from God is no life. Such a life is steeped in misery and pain. Even if he possesses the most prized treasure in the whole world, it suffices not.

To miss God is to miss a life full of bliss.
Never take Him for granted!

© MrValue

Loving rightly!

"Don't fall in love with the flower and then try to change it's scent!"- Jay Shetty

Many times when we fall in love with someone, it almost feels like we are on the same frequency with the other person because our desire to be with them gives us the impetus to accept them for who they are since this is what draws us close to them in the first instance.

But after some time, some things starts to change, we start to feel nausea. The very thing that got us attracted to them now becomes an irritation.

We start to nag their behaviors and we no longer see the good side of them but starts noticing the gray areas. The implication is that we begin to suggest to them some new rules of behavior which are diametrically opposite to who they are.

If they accept, they lose themselves and by the time they are out of the relationship, they can't even recognize themselves again.

We should never do this to anyone! 

As the Buddha responded when asked the difference between 'I like you' and 'I love  you'. He beautifully answered 'When you like a flower, you just pluck it ; when you love a flower, you water it daily.'

And when you pluck a flower, it dies but when it is watered then it is preserved and it then grows.

If you understand this,  then you understand life.

MrValue©

How worry wastes your life

"Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?" - Matthew 6:27

Despite knowing that worrying does no good but aims to truncate our lives, we still engage in it.

Why?

The answer is not far-fetched. It is because to worry feels convenient. It gives us the opportunity to mourn over our distress, complain about it and murmur. Yet as the greatest teacher pointed out, it is up to no good.

In these days of economic crisis, we worry about the high price of commodities, the unemployed graduate laments about his lack of job, even those already employed worry about their inconsistent payments, while some others worry about their meager salary that is becoming increasingly inadequate to meet their needs.

We worry about our food, our clothing, our shelter, our life, our future.

Is there anything we don't worry about?

Yet it does not in anyway solve the immediate problems we are confronted with.

It rather grew worse and we may end up losing our lives in the process as it threatens our well-being. 

This is a miserable way to live.

Jesus advises us to live one day at a time. He admonishes us to choose to be optimistic and trust in God's divine providence to meet all our needs as He is sure to do every time without fail.

MrValue©

Desire Success

"When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful."- Eric Thomas

The above quote is summed up in one word, It is DESIRE.
Desire is the starting point of all achievement. It is the first principle.

Wishes doesn't get the job done, it's a pulsating desire to do something that makes it happen.

Life doesn't give us our shoulds.
'I should be rich by 30', 'I should have my own house', 'I should have my own business'.

No!
You have to develop a new vocabulary, where you replace the shoulds with musts.
Say instead  'I must be rich by 30', 'I must have my own house', 'I must have my own business'.

How does that sound?
That's more binding on us than the shoulds.

Musts are products of a pulsating desire to get something done and this is exactly what life delivers to our doorsteps.

Stop wishing for things to happen because nothing just happens but are made to happen. As Newton's First law of motion states "A body will continue in its present state of rest unless it is acted upon by an external force."

Don't ever forget this!
Change only happens with you making a move.

MrValue©

Live on Today Island

”1000 good intentions are not as powerful as one action." - Unknown

One word separates the successful from the unsuccessful. It's the word START.

It's just like the story of folks who live on 'someday island' and 'today island'.

Folks on 'someday island' have got huge, massive and incredible dreams but they never get to act on them or get started. They hope to get started someday, sometime until they eventually end up in the grave unfulfilled.

But I love the folks who live on 'today island'. They are the go-getters. They are the folks we read about in the magazines, newspapers and get to watch on tv and hear about every time.

They believe today is all they've got to do whatever it takes to make their dreams a reality. So they give today their best shot.
These folks wake up every single day with so much zest, ready to go all out in pursuit of their dreams. They believe that each little decisions they make and each little steps they take today, impacts greatly on their tomorrow.

Every great man and woman who has walked this earth and written their names on the sands of time lived on 'today island'. They don't just sit down and wish. They start! 

And if this is your desire too, then you have to leave 'someday island' and start living on 'today island'.

Miracles do happen when you start!

MrValue ©

Speak!

"In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth.”- Genesis 1:1

Isn't it interesting that the first thing the Bible tells us about God is that He is a creator.

When we look at the whole universe, we see its vastness and the intelligence that permeates it. This no doubt gives us an idea of the mind of our creator God.

But here's another interesting thing we must never miss.
How the universe came into being!

Hebrews 11 verse 3 gives us an idea.  "God spoke the universe into being!"

These two words 'God said' were repeated through the first chapter of Genesis and this helps us to know how God functions.

God spoke out the dreams and desires of His heart and He acted congruently with what He had said.

This is how He wants us to function too. Remember "there is power of life and death in the tongue". This means the tongue, your tongue has the creative ability to make things happen for you or ruin it. The way you use it, is your own prerogative.

God desires that you speak forth the images He has formed in your mind. Those desires He has carved in your heart. Speaking it, creates for you the opportunity for their manifestation.

Imagine if Joseph had not spoken out his dreams, how then could he have emerged.

Don't speak out the desires of the enemy, rather speak out the desires of God for you and act congruently with what you have spoken.

MrValue©

Finding a spouse

"Find your purpose before you find a spouse. Get a life before you get a wife."  - MrValue

In today's world the above statement just doesn't add up. Many seek to be in a relationship just for the fun of it while many others can't wait to get married. It's as if their whole life depends on it.

The lady waits anxiously for her knight in shining armor while the guy searches frantically for his Cinderella.

Both go in search of a life partner without having a life's vision.
No wonder they eventually end up stuck and feel wasted.

We have got the whole thing upside down.

Fulfilment in life does not hang on being with whoever makes you happy but it hinges on finding your life's purpose and living it.

Marriage was instituted by God to make purpose easier to accomplish. As Ecclesiastes reveals, "two are better than one". But the two are only better if they both agree.

This means that their must be compatibility of purpose, values and beliefs.This is what makes marriage lasting. Both partners must have the same vision and be committed to achieving it together.

So, just before you get into a relationship with someone, ask to know if you are both headed in the same direction.

MrValue©

The Danger of Comparison

"Comparison is the thief of joy."
Theodore Roosevelt

People are happy with their lives and all seem to be going all well and good for them until they log on to their social media accounts. After watching their friends on Facebook and Instagram and saw how far they have gone with their lives, they wonder why they are still at the same spot, stuck without progress or so they thought.

Then they start to feel empty and the joy they once had suddenly becomes a mirage because it's now directed on the things they don't  have.

No doubt this is the lot of most people on a regular basis.

But Hey!
What has the other person's life got to do with you. They are living out their dreams on their own terms.
You should be busy pursuing yours too and not checking the other person out. It is called minding your own business!

As Jordan Peterson said
"Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today."

How close are you getting to fulfilling your dream? Are you closer today than you were yesterday?

To envy another person is an unhealthy attitude that seeks to destroy you and waste your life. Don't do that!

Be happy for another person's success and let their success stories reinforce in you the belief that you too can live the life of your dreams.

MrValue©

Addressing the money problem

"You don't have a money problem but a wisdom or an idea problem." - Mike Murdock

The first time I came across this statement I almost didn't believe it but when I sat down to really understand it then I got it and realized the truth in it.

Truly, we often think that the solution to our money challenges is to have more money. And yes that may be true but herein lies the dilemma, how we intend to get it. 

The only way familiar to many of us is either someone gives us more money based on our request or we apply for a high paying job or we request for a raise, if we already have a job.

The only wrong thing about all of these approaches is that, the focus is on, what you can get from people and this is a dangerous place to be because it opens you up to frustration and disappointment due to unmet expectations.

But here's another way to see it. Do what's within your control. Think of what you can do for people. Givers are no doubt receivers, this is a law. Do something! give something! 
Meet an urgent need or solve an immediate problem.
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Someone goes for shopping and by the time he is done, thousands of naira has been spent buying some certain items he believes he needs.

or

Maybe there's this big musical concert in town and the registration fee is pegged at #10,000 or more and the concert would only last for a day.

Yet people come in their large numbers ranging in the thousands or even millions, willing and ready to pay this amount. Some even pay more, like the VIPs or the VVIPs who has some special privileges.

Remember, these people were not forced to come or pay, they came of their own volition because they had a need which the concert would meet. The need to be entertained.

Yet we complain there is no money in the country. No matter the economic recession in a country, people will never stop buying food, because it's an urgent need. We need food to survive.

Why do companies hire people?  whether big or small corporations.. 

Are they on a charity venture with the intention or mission to dash out money to some folks they believe needs to be helped or rather they are looking for competent people whose input to the organization would meet a need or solve a problem.
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You get the drift!
It's about time you have a change of mindset.

There are lots of money flying above our heads on a regular basis. People make money everyday and people get an employment too on a regular basis. Though a huge chunk maybe unemployed, yet, those who end up with the jobs are those who have the wherewithal. They add value to the organization.

Stop being miserable and start doing something!

Money easily flows to the person who meets a need. To validate this statement, you will realize that all the money you have spent for the last couple of years and still continues to spend today has and will always go to those who meet a specific need of yours.

So when next you complain of your lack of money, realize that it's an idea problem. Recognize the urgent needs around you, then come up with a plan to meet those needs and soon enough money comes at your beck and call.

MrValue©

Abundance Mentality

Don't say, "I can't afford it." Ask yourself, "How can I afford it?" - Robert Kiyosaki

It's a dead end to conclude that because something is more than your earnings, it means you can't afford it. The real issue here is not about buying whatever catches your whims and fancies, that is actually beside the point. The real issue here is about mentality, your mindset towards money.

The one who always says,  I can't afford this or that, shuts the door completely to any possibility of increasing his chances to affording it. Such a person has a lack mentality.

The other person who asks, how can I afford this? Is operating on a different paradigm. This person is characterized with an abundance mentality and believes that there must be a way somewhere and guess what eventually happens, He gets it.

He who asks, must inevitably receive and he who seeks must find. This is a law!

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We are most times unaware how powerful our minds are. It has the capacity to search through the various data it has accumulated over the years, an answer to whatever we ask it and If it doesn't get the response from the stored data, it goes further to collect data from outside sources and makes sure that the lingering question or challenge gets sorted out. 

But how the mind goes on this particular errand is through the words we use.

There are some words that are toxic to our potential, words like  " I can't ",  " Impossible " are toxic words which renders us ineffective in the face of challenge.

Words are not ordinary, they are containers of power. They carry energy and positive words carry positive energy which drives us  into positive actions. It is important and neccesary we engage it often.

MrValue©

How Much Do You Love You?

"Friendship with one's self is all important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world." - Eleanor Roosevelt

Many people wait all their lives for the one person who would sweep them off their feet and make them happy ever after.

Most folks don't enjoy their own company, they need to be around people who they expect should love and respect them before they can feel loved.

Know this for a fact,
You can't express love adequately to another person, if you haven't first loved you.

Why?
Because it is impossible to give what you don't have.

Neither should you demand love and care from someone else, when you don't love you and care for you first. It would only make you a needy and dependent person which most times turns people off.

Learn to enjoy your own company and it is from the abundance of love and approval that you have given to yourself that can easily flow to another person.

You are the one that you have been waiting for all your life and you hold the key to your own happiness.

It's about time you use it!

MrValue©

Finding Your Essence

"Christ existed before all things, and in union with him all things have their proper place." - Colossians 1:17 GNB

This is such an astounding statement. To be in Christ is not an option but a necessity. Life has no meaning and no reference point without our roots in Christ. Argue as we may, this is the truth that keeps staring at our faces.

The message bible says it more clearly,  "everything got started in him and finds its purpose in him."

You may need to pause for a while and let this thought really sink in.

Your life got its start in Him and there is no way you would ever make any sense out of it without Him. He is the one that helps you to understand your very existence.

When Christ finds a lost man or woman, He gives meaning to their lives. Suddenly all the broken pieces of their lives starts to fix together and just like a fish taken back to water, they suddenly come alive.

Christ holds our very existence and with him in the picture we can begin to comprehend our reason for living.

What does the scripture say,

"For none of us lives for ourselves alone, and none of us dies for ourselves alone. If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord. For this very reason, Christ died and returned to life so that he might be the Lord of both the dead and the living."
Romans 14:7‭-‬9 NIV

He is our Lord and our owner and we must show willingness to surrender our lives totally to Him and just as Hudson Taylor says “Christ is either Lord of all, or is not Lord at all”.

MrValue©

Recipe for Wholesome Living

"Wholesome thoughts leads to wholesome living"- MrValue

A noteworthy statement written by apostle Paul gives us a clearer picture of what wholesome thoughts are. In the fourth chapter of Philippians verse eight, he gives us what we must make the center of our thought life.

They include 'whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.'

As Joyce meyer noted 'you cannot have a positive life and a negative mind.'

Each time you give in to unwholesome thoughts like anger, hate, malice, anxiety, envy, disappointment, jealousy, unforgiveness and all of such thoughts, it demoralizes your body and you fling the door open to diseases.

No wonder King Solomon warns us to guard our heart (or mind) with all diligence for it is the fountain or the wellspring of our life. And if the fountain be dirty, it then pours into every aspect of our lives.
 
No matter how well you eat healthy food, if you feed your mind always with the wrong thoughts, then it is just like a slow poison that will eventually crumble your health.

Your thoughts has a direct influence on your general well being and happy thoughts would no doubt give birth to happy living.

MrValue©

Create your own reality

"You cannot travel within and stand still without."- James Allen

What this means is that, wherever your mind goes, your body would eventually catch up with it, sooner or later.

Isn't it interesting that we have the capacity to project our future and live in it, even when there is nothing in our present state that bears resemblance with what we see. This is the power of imagination!

History is replete with a lot of great men and women whose imagination helped them to create a world for themselves, different from the one they were familiar with.

Everything we see in our world today were products of someone else's imagination.

As Paulo Coelho firmly stated 'The world lies in the hands of those that have the courage to dream and who take the risk of living out their dreams - each according to his or her own talent.'

Your imagination is your creative ability in creating your own future, don't reduce it to mere fantasy.

A quote by Albert Einstein would help you further understand it's value. It says 'Imagination is everything, it is the preview of life's coming attractions.'

MrValue©

Overnight success is a myth

 “I start early and I stay late, day after day, year after year. It took me 17 years and 114 days to become an overnight success.”- Lionel Messi

This statement is not an unfamiliar one. If you would ask anyone who emerged to be a success in whatever chosen field of interest, this is exactly what they would also agree on.

No such thing as an overnight success, you have to keep working and working at it until you eventually strike gold.

I know we don't love hearing stuffs like this, we expect to suddenly arrive at our dream.

But that's not going to happen!

Between your dream and it's fulfilment, there is a huge gap without which the dream cannot see the light of the day.

I call this huge gap, PROCESS

This is the stage where the dream just like a seed sown in the ground must be given the right nourishment for it to germinate.

Success is what you grow into by daily commitments to get better and better at moving closer to your dream.

All you have to do is, believe the vision and trust the process.

MrValue©

The Necessity of Faith

"But without Faith, it is impossible to please God.." - Hebrews 11:6a

Now note what it didn't say, it didn't say without giving or without praying or without going to church..

It is just one thing that was stated here.......Faith!

And what makes this verse of scripture more powerful is the word IMPOSSIBLE.

It is like a finality!
None of your religious gimmicks pleases God.

I love the way Mike Murdock puts it,
"God's only pleasure is to be believed and His only pain is to be doubted."

This means faith is serious business!

So what then is Faith?

Faith is the substance of things hoped for..
It is the evidence of things we are yet to see..

In other words, it is believing and accepting as our reality what we are yet to see or experience.....

Each time God shows us what He intends to do with us from the scriptures and we accept it as our reality and walk accordingly..
God is pleased, because that's faith.

Each time, He commands us to do a particular thing and we do it without having a second thought..
God is pleased, because that's faith

When we come to the secret place to fellowship with Him, armed with the understanding that we are not wasting our time..
God is pleased, because that's faith..

When we talk to someone about our loving saviour Jesus Christ and how that He died so that we may have an abundant life..
God is pleased, because that's faith.

Faith is a response..
Your response to the word of God.

You understand that the bible is not just letters but that it carries the very life of God which has the capacity to transform you and your circumstances.

This is what the enemy is after...your faith.

Don't allow him to steal it..

Guard it diligently!

MrValue ©

Love is Commitment

"God is Love"- 1 John 4:8b

So you just met this beautiful lady or this amazing guy and you feel this adrenalin rush. You can't wait to spend the rest of your life with him or her. She is your dream girl and he is your prince charming.

The D-Day comes, you get married and 6 months into the marriage, it still feels like you guys just met.

Then suddenly like someone who just woke up from a beautiful dream, you start noticing some unlikely behaviors that gets you offended.

He forgets my birthday, she complains...
She can't cook, he says..

After a month or two, you regret ever getting married to him or her and you want to quit.

What went wrong?

The truth is you knew, she can't cook and you promised to help out.
You knew he forgets things easily and you promised to make things work.

So where did all of these commitments go?

They faded out.. I guess

Love is beyond the feeling. It is a divine and sacred call to serve one another committedly.

Love is not to be treated as casual else it would lead to casualties.

So when next you tell someone I love you, you had better mean it!

MrValue

Choose to be cheerful

"Being cheerful keeps you healthy. It is slow death to be gloomy all the time." - Proverbs 17:22 GNB

Gloominess is like a contagious disease, no one likes to associate with anyone that carries a gloomy face. They are often angry about everything and complain about everything. It is an unhealthy attitude which has harmful effects on one's personal well-being. It kills more than any deadly disease known to man and what's worse is, it is easy for anyone to fall into it.

Cheerfulness is it's opposite,  everyone loves to be around cheerful people. This explains why comedians make more money than most business owners. Cheerfulness is a healthy attitude which impacts one's personal well-being positively. It stirs up creativity and keeps the mind alive and active to capture great ideas.

To be cheerful and avoid depression is a matter of choice. It doesn't just happen! And to do this, you need to constantly guide your mind's eye to focus on the things, you do have working well in your favor and be grateful for them.

MrValue

Find your own company

“You are the same today that you are going to be five years from now except for two things: the people with whom you associate and the books you read.”  – Charles “Tremedous” Jones

The Holy Book says, he that walks with the wise shall become wise but a companion of fools shall be destroyed. You take the mold of the people you company with, those you spend your ear-time with whether by books, audio or TV or the people you commune with on a regular basis.

If you desire to succeed and make a difference in your world, you can't listen to everything or watch anything that is shown on TV.

To succeed, you need to find the right company, your own company, those who will help your baby (i.e your dreams) leap.

Your vision chooses your company and decides the kinds of books you read. It places a definite demand upon your life and five years from now would reveal if you have made the right choice or not.

MrValue

Watch your character!

"If I take care of my character, my reputation will take care of itself" -
D L Moody

Character is one thing that can never be hidden.You may have all the money, fame or power in the world but without a good character, it's like building a beautiful house on the sand. At the slightest storm, everything crumbles.

Your character is not what you do in public but what you do when nobody is watching you.The real you is what goes on in the private and sooner or later everyone would get to know about it.

Skill, ability and talent are good,  they can easily take you to the top but without a good character to sustain it, it's just like a kite thrown up in the air, it will eventually fall to the ground because if you jump up, you will come down but if you grow up, you will stay up and a good character is the root that makes success lasting.

MrValue

God loves you unconditionally


"The basis of our faith in God rests solely on the truth that God loves us unconditionally."

How many times have we been face to face with a lingering challenge or difficulty such that we looked to God for an answer but no help was forthcoming, since we didn't get what we wanted neither did the problem go away.

Then, here comes the bigger challenge, we doubt our faith in God and many questions pops up in our mind seeking for answers.

Perhaps, you are going through this right now.

Hmm.. This is not an easy place!

It is a place of testing, refining and remolding and here's one more thing you need to know, God is not leaving you all alone in the storm.

Hear what He whispers in your ear,

'Fear not, for I am with you. This is not intended to ruin you but to make you my dear child.This is for my glory! Just trust me!'


MrValue

Don't lose your head to love


"It is okay to fall in love, provided you don't lose your head in the process." - MrValue

I have heard this statement a dozen of times, 'I think am in love' and Bollywood romance isn't helping either. All the lovey-dovey moments displayed there can make anyone almost fall in love with the next available person. Hence, the excuse to do all sort of dumb things in the name of 'am in love'.

Really!  Is love that dumb? I beg to disagree!

How can someone be in an abusive relationship and claim that he/she is suffering for love.

You are in a relationship, where you are the one always initiating the contact while the other person simply does not care.

Isn't that clear enough to you that you are only an option and not a priority.

But how can you see this, you are in love and what is worse is that, you have also lost your head in the process.

Listen to me dear friends! Love is not dumb neither is it blind.

It empowers!

And if you are in a relationship with someone who does not appreciate your worth, then maybe it's time to let him/her  go.


MrValue

Take care of yourself


"Happiness lies, first of all, in health -
George William Curtis

I want to become rich by 30, I want to own my own house by 35, I want to make great strides in my career before 40. I want this, I want that. We get so busy all our lives pursuing our life's dreams and goals, forgetting that which is most important ; our health, our well-being.

As John C Maxwell helps us to understand, "Today's health gives me strength." Your well-being, your good health today gives you the strength and vitality to fulfill your dreams tomorrow. Don't overrule it and don't neglect it!

There is no happiness nor fulfilment in being sick, ask those in the hospital. Slow down a little bit, don't take life too seriously. Have fun sometimes, eat well and have a good sleep.

Let me end with a quote by Jim Rohn
"Take care of your body, it's the only place you have to live."



MrValue©

Thoughts are things!


“Those who think they can and those who think they can’t are both usually right.” – Confucius

Thoughts are things! They are real tangible things and the earlier you realize this and believe it,  then the better for you.

The people who make things happen in the world today are those who are crazy enough to believe that they can. They believe they have got something special, something that that their generation needs and they believe they can make their dreams a reality.

Do you know why most people are scared to try anything at all,  it's because they are scared of failing. They have already sentenced themselves to failure before they even get started. 
They have become so acquainted with the words 'can't' and 'impossible' such that it has sapped all of their capacity to make anything worthwhile come out of their lives.

Anytime an opportunity presents itself to them,  they know 1000 reasons why it's never going to work out and that's all they get. They get back all of what they think because if you think you can't,  you are right.

Know this!
You can easily determine where you eventually end up in life from the thoughts you are accommodating today because thoughts are things and they are the building blocks of your future.

I have one question for you, how often do you use the word 'can'?

Now,  think about that!


MrValue©

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