Love is Commitment

"God is Love"- 1 John 4:8b

So you just met this beautiful lady or this amazing guy and you feel this adrenalin rush. You can't wait to spend the rest of your life with him or her. She is your dream girl and he is your prince charming.

The D-Day comes, you get married and 6 months into the marriage, it still feels like you guys just met.

Then suddenly like someone who just woke up from a beautiful dream, you start noticing some unlikely behaviors that gets you offended.

He forgets my birthday, she complains...
She can't cook, he says..

After a month or two, you regret ever getting married to him or her and you want to quit.

What went wrong?

The truth is you knew, she can't cook and you promised to help out.
You knew he forgets things easily and you promised to make things work.

So where did all of these commitments go?

They faded out.. I guess

Love is beyond the feeling. It is a divine and sacred call to serve one another committedly.

Love is not to be treated as casual else it would lead to casualties.

So when next you tell someone I love you, you had better mean it!

MrValue

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