In Love With Me

Hi there,

Oh Yes, I am in love with me, isn't that exciting. I tell you it is. Why? because, being in love with oneself is the key to unlimited happiness. Many people wait on people to love and cherish them before they can become happy in their lives. They leave off control of their lives to circumstances which often than not are not within their reach. They are only happy when circumstances are good and sad when things around them don't look fine. That's a kinda miserable way to live. Don't do that to yourself.

As a renowned author said "life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent how you react to it". So why postpone your happiness till something big breaks through for you in the future. Choose to be happy now and the best way to do that is to become crazily in love with you. Many folks don't enjoy their own company, they need to be around folks who they expect should love and respect their person, before they can feel loved. That's isn't so good.

Know this today, you can't express love adequately to another person, if you haven't first loved you, why? because it's impossible to give what you don't have. And neither should you demand love and care from someone else when you don't first love and care for you first. It would only make you a needy and dependent person, which most times turns people off.

A person who is in love with himself/herself is not hard to recognize, he/she speaks with so much confidence and has a healthy self esteem. No matter, what people do to him or say, he is unperturbed. He exudes a tremendous amount of confidence such that, people become naturally attracted to his person and are willing to listen when he talks.  Why because, a person who loves himself can communicate love in his speech and actions. It is from the outflow of love inside him that he relates with another person.

Let me leave with a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt
"Friendship with one’s self is all important, because without it one can not be friends with anyone else in the world."

Sure you are having a wonderful day so far.

Anthony Desalu
Your Friend and Well Wisher.